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the short film The Last Real Cowboys,
Billy Bob Thornton and Mickey Jones are two grizzled
range riders somewhere in the West, sitting by a campfire,
eating beans. Out of the blue one of them muses, “Why
don’t we skip no more?’
That’s
a question more and more people are starting to ask.
The newest craze in exercise is really not new at
all, but it’s something you probably haven’t
done since you were eight. Unlike jogging and stepping,
it’s more about reconnecting with your spirit
than burning calories.
Across the country, full-grown adults have been spotted
merrily—and publicly--skipping down jogging
paths, city streets, and other locales generally reserved
for serious runners, bikers, and power walkers.
Skipping
is becoming a national phenomenon, if you believe
San Francisco book publicist Kim Corbin who has made
a career by leading a nationwide campaign to “out”
closeted skippers everywhere. She has already garnered
attention for her efforts with coverage on CNN and
People Magazine. She has been widely pictured in the
local and national press leading group skips over
the Golden Gate Bridge dressed in a cape and crown
and waving a wand. Trailing behind her by a skipping
horde of kids and adults alike.
Her
e-mail newsletter on skipping has more than 1,000
subscribers. Many of these skipping enthusiasts are
featured on her web site – iskip.com
– that covers virtually everything you ever
wanted to know about skipping. Pages of pictures and
testimonials of skippers are laced with stories about
famous skippers, as well as with little known facts
about the growing phenomenon.
Did
you know, for example, that you could even plan a
skipping wedding? Have you heard that Biblical scholars
now theorize that two of the Bible’s “real
men” – Kings David and Solomon –
skipped frequently?
Atlanta
writer Pattie Baker inadvertently took up skipping
one cold November day while she was out for her morning
walk – just because she wanted to get home faster.
Inspired by Corbin, she now skips regularly with her
children.
“It’s
the protective walls we’ve been putting up,”
Baker said. “In order to skip, you’ve
got to break down those walls and not care what anyone
thinks. So, when you do that, your spirit gets exercise,
and that part of you becomes stronger. You cannot
do it without feeling self-conscious the first few
times.”
Baker
says that she gets quite a few stares from passing
motorists, but after a few months she’s become
a familiar sight in her neighborhood.
“I
spend a lot of time waving to the neighbors as they’re
driving away,” she said. “That never happens
when you’re jogging. They’re behind the
wheel smirking at you, but it’s a nice way to
get to know the neighbors.”
Corbin
has also appointed “head skippers” in
46 cities. These skipping apostles are charged with
leading group skips and in general spreading the word
about the benefits of skipping to the public.
“I think the chord that it’s striking
with people is that basically what we’re doing
is promoting skipping as an outward expression of
joy,” said Corbin from New York where she was
getting ready to lead a group skip through Central
Park. “We’ve been letting negativity dictate
what we do for so long. Now there’s a group
of people who are saying we’re going to skip.
It’s visual and you can see it. It’s a
free spirited thing.”
Yes,
skipping down the street, arms flapping may not look
very “adult”, but these skippers take
what they’re doing very seriously.
First
of all, feeling self-conscious probably keep many
who might like to skip from doing so in public. That’s
what the skipping gurus most want to change.
“It’s
the protective walls we’ve been putting up,”
Baker said. “In order to skip, you’ve
got to break down those walls and not care what anyone
thinks. So, when you do that, your spirit gets exercise,
and that part of you becomes stronger.”
Some are convinced that the act of skipping in public
gives them the courage to pursue other dreams. Baker,
for example, decided to form a non-profit organization
– Hattitudes – that donates hats to young
girls undergoing cancer treatment. Along with the
hat they also get a brochure promoting self-esteem
by explaining how everyone wears various hats in life
and that they are far more than just a cancer patient.
“It
reminds the girls they’re an artist and an athlete,
a sister and a scientist, and that although cancer
is a big thing in their life it’s just part
of who they are,” said Baker. “There are
two things they can choose. One is their attitude
and the second is this brand new free hat. That’s
important because there are so many things at this
time in their life that they can’t choose.”
The hats provide the girls with a form of positive
energy like the kind Baker has found in skipping.
“We’ve gotten a lot of media coverage,”
said Baker. “We’ve fulfilled the needs
of Egleston AFLAC Cancer Center at Emory University
(for hats). We’ve expanded the program to Scottish
Rite and we’re about to expand it to Chicago,
LA, and potentially New York as well.”
She says skipping can be a conduit to bringing passions
to life for other people. It also provides a means
for meeting like-minded who may want to change the
world for the better or just change their own personal
world.
“The
skipping thing sounds so silly, but it has a powerful
effect of showing that I’m really in charge
of my own limits. If I can break through that I can
achieve whatever I want to achieve.”
Other people also skip in order to raise money for
favorite charities. Alpharetta, Ga. skipper Susan
Reineck spent more than a week last April skipping
100 miles from Atlanta all the way to Ellijay in the
North Georgia mountains to raise money for a local
wildlife rehabilitation refuge.
“It’s
just fun,” proclaimed Reineck. “It’s
about the same pace as a walk, but you’re really
using your lungs a lot more. So, I’m able to
just sit back and enjoy the scenery while I do it.”
People – like Baker – skip with their
children. Many say it’s a great form of exercise,
but clearly it’s more than just about getting
in shape.
Skipping
is an activity appropriate for all ages. Just ask
67 year-old Laura Middleton Downing, a Boulder, Colorado
skipper. She and her friends skip through the bustling
Pearl Street Mall, and she’s even been spotted
skipping through some local road races. She also leads
a senior citizen group in skipping routines.
“We
got all sorts of strange looks and smirks, but we
also got some people to skip with us,” she said.
“I’m finding that it does look kind of
silly for adults to do it – especially for seniors.
But, if people will do it they find it’s a lot
of fun and it makes you feel good. “
This
activity has to be catching on, if watching Billy
Bob Thornton skipping on the screen is any indication.
. After all, it’s all about self-expression.
“It’s
a great metaphor for the evolution of the male--losing
the (inner) child, and losing the freedom to truly
express ourselves in all silly ways,” said Jeff
Lester, who, along with his wife, actress Susan Anton,
produced and directed The Last Real Cowboys. “We
(have) become much more rigid and concerned about
the way we’re coming off and the way we look.
I just thought it was great to take a leap back and
ask the question: where in history did that happen?”
Lester says the premise of the comic short film is
simple. It’s about a cowboy in the 1800s who
poses the question, “Why don’t we skip
no more? You know like when we were kids – skipping.
I used to love skipping.” The response from
his befuddled companion is simply, “Men don’t
skip.” Just like they try not to show their
feelings, trust a stranger, or believe in love.
Skippers
are quick to tell you that just isn’t true.
In fact, one skipper, former Christian missionary
Peter Wohlfelder has even written a book entitled
“Solomon Skipped.”
Based
on his study of Hebrew texts, he maintains that both
King David and Solomon skipped frequently.
“I
found that when David danced before the ark he was
actually skipping,” claimed Wohlfelder.
But, just as everyone has the potential for renewal
and redemption, both these old cowboys do learn to
skip again. In the end it is the triumph of the inner
child for them as it could be for us.
©
2003, Randy Southerland